The Social Aspect of
Women in Islam:
As a Mother:
(1) The Quran
elevates kindness to parents (especially mothers) to a status second
to the worship of God:
{Your Lord has
commanded that you worship none but Him, and that you be kind to
your parents. If one of them or both of them reach old age with
you, do not say to them a word of disrespect, or scold them, but say
a generous word to them. And act humbly to them in mercy, and say,
“My Lord, have mercy on them, since they cared for me when I was
small.” } (Quran, 17:23-24, see also 31:14, 46:15, and 29:8)
(2) Naturally, the
Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) specified this behavior for his followers,
rendering to mothers an unequalled status in human relationships. A
man came to the Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) and said, “O Messenger of
God! Who among the people is the most worthy of my good
companionship?” The Prophet (pbuh) said: {Your mother.} The man
said, “Then who?” The Prophet (pbuh) said: {Then your mother.}
The man further asked, “Then who?” The Prophet (pbuh) said: {Then
your mother.} The man asked again, “Then who?” The Prophet (pbuh)
said: {Then your father.}
As a Sister in Faith
(In General):
(1) According to
the Prophet Muhammad’s (pbuh) sayings: {women are but shaqa’iq
(twin halves or sisters) of men.} This saying is a profound
statement that directly relates to the issue of human equality
between the genders. If the first meaning of the Arabic word
shaqa’iq, “twin halves,” is adopted, it means that the
male is worth one half (of society), while the female is worth the
other half. If the second meaning, “sisters,” is adopted, it
implies the same.
(2) The Prophet
Muhammad (pbuh) taught kindness, care, and respect toward women in
general: {I commend you to be good to women.} It is significant
that such instruction of the Prophet was among his final
instructions and reminders in the farewell pilgrimage address given
shortly before his passing away.
(3) Modesty and
social interaction: The parameters of proper modesty for males and
females (dress and behavior) are based on revelatory sources (the
Quran and prophetic sayings) and, as such, are regarded by believing
men and women as divinely-based guidelines with legitimate aims and
divine wisdom behind them. They are not male-imposed or socially
imposed restrictions. It is interesting to know that even the Bible
encourages women to cover their head: “If a woman does not cover her
head, she should have her hair cut off; and if it is a disgrace for
a woman to have her hair cut or shaved off, she should cover her
head.” (1 Corinthians 11:6).
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