A question that
repeatedly
arises is that
concerning the
'position of
women in Islam'.
Muslim scholars
have been able
with great
success -
despite the
onslaught of
distortion and
mis-representation
- to demonstrate
the true
position of
Muslim women;
especially of
women's
liberation in
the advent of
Islam.
The Islamic
ruling on issues
such as
inheritance, the
right to earn,
the right to own
property etc.
have reinforced
this position
and have been
prescribed by
Allah - the One
True God - long
before western
nations even
thought of such
concepts.
The issue of two
women witnesses
in place of one
man is the
concern of the
present
treatise. As
will become
clear to the
sincere and
objective
reader, the
intellectual
status of a
Muslim woman is
neither marred
nor degraded by
the commandment
that if two
Muslim male
witnesses are
not available
then one Muslim
male and two
Muslim females
should be
invited to
witness. Rather,
this injunction
is in perfect
harmony with the
nature and
psychology of
the woman as
will become
evident through
quotations from
psychologists,
psychiatrists
and medical
research.
The passage of
the Qur'an (Baqarah
2:282) in which
the
above-mentioned
requirement is
made has usury,
capital and
debtor
difficulties as
its theme. Allah
grants
guidelines in
matters relating
to monetary
obligations.
Then business
transactions are
dealt with. In
this section,
the requirement
to commit all
transactions
into writing is
stated most
emphatically
(Reduce them to
writing...). The
section after
this describes
the
responsibility
of the scribe,
or in modern
parlance, the
person
responsible for
drawing up the
agreement. The
following
section
describes the
responsibility
and the
obligation of
the person
incurring the
liability. The
section after
this explains
how if the party
that is liable
cannot
effectively draw
up the contract
- out of being
deficient or
weak mentally,
or being unable
to dictate -
then his or her
guardian should
help draw out
the contract and
choose two
suitable
witnesses to
observe. It must
be understood
that this
situation arises
if it is not
possible for the
liable party to
draw out the
contract by
him/herself. The
condition to put
things into
writing is still
supreme.
The next section
then explains
that two men
should be called
to witness and
if two men are
not available
(And if there
are not two
men...) then a
man and two
women. The
legislation then
continues and
reminds most
emphatically
that one should
not be
complacent about
putting aLL
agreements into
writing - no
matter whether
these agreements
are major or
minor as this is
more JUST in the
sight of Allah
and more
reliable as
evidence.
The passage of
the Qur'an
further explains
that for
practical
reasons it may
not always be
possible to
commit
on-the-spot
agreements into
writing. In this
case, it is also
recommended that
it be witnessed.
The section that
follows then
lays down the
guidelines,
which should be
followed in the
event that no
witnesses are
present.
The purpose in
giving the above
outline is to
draw attention
to the fact the
question of
women witnesses
relates, in this
instance, to
commercial
agreements and
is not a
statement on
their status.
Let's look at
the section
under
investigation in
more detail.
Allah said: “And
get two
witnesses of
your own men,
and if there are
not two men then
a man and two
women such as
you choose for
witnesses - so
that if one of
them errs, the
other can remind
her...” [Baqarah
2:182]
A number of
questions (as
well as
eyebrows) are
raised when this
section of the
passage is read.
The questions
often posed
include:
Do women have
weaker memories
than men?
Why should two
women be needed
in the place of
one man?
Are women
inferior to men?
One must
remember that
Prophet Muhammad
(May the Peace
and Blessing of
Allah be upon
him) was neither
a physiologist,
a psychiatrist
and nor a
surgeon. He was
an illiterate
and could
neither read nor
write. He passed
on the
revelation
exactly as he
received it.
Allah, the
Creator, with
His infinite
wisdom gave the
directives best
suited to
humankind. He is
the Creator,
therefore, He
knows man better
than a man
himself.
In this
scientific age
we can explore
the significance
of this
legislation. A
great deal has
been discovered
since the early
days of Islam.
And each day of
advancement
brings about a
better
understanding of
the last and
final revelation
from the
Creator, Allah
to the creation,
humankind.
As women, we are
aware of the
cyclical
psychological
strains that a
woman has to
encounter every
month. The
symptoms during
early pregnancy,
antenatal and
post-natal
depressions, the
phenomenon of
menopause, the
physiological
and
psychological
problems due to
infertility and
last but not
least the
psychological
problems faced
after
miscarriage.
It is under
these situations
that women can
experience
extraordinary
psychological
strains giving
rise to
depression, lack
of
concentration,
slow-mindedness
and short term
memory loss. Let
us examine these
episodes in a
bit more detail
and with medical
references from
the scientific
world. PMT is an
umbrella term
for more than
140 different
symptoms and
there is a lot
of evidence that
it causes a lot
of unhappiness
in many women,
and
consequently, to
their families.
Psychiatry in
Practice, April
1983 issue
states: "Forty
percent of women
suffer from
pre-menstrual
syndrome in some
form and one in
four women have
their lives
severely
disrupted by it.
Dr Jill
Williams,
general
practitioner
from Bury, gives
guidelines on
how to recognize
patients at risk
and suggests a
suitable
treatment."
In the same
issue, George
Beaumont
reporting on the
workshop held at
the Royal
College of
Obstetricians
and
Gynecologists in
London on
pre-menstrual
syndrome, says:
"Some
authorities
would argue that
80 percent of
women have some
degree of breast
and abdominal
discomfort which
is pre-menstrual
but that only
about 10 percent
complain to
their doctors -
and then only
because of
severe
tenderness of
the breasts and
mental
depression...
Other
authorities have
suggested that
pre-menstrual
syndrome is a
new problem,
regular
ovulation for 20
years or more
being a
phenomenon
caused by
'civilization',
'medical
progress', and
an altered
concept of the
role of women."
In its
examination of
the occurrence
of physical and
psychological
change during
the period just
prior to the
onset of
menstruation we
read in
Psychological
Medicine: "Many
studies have
reported an
increased
likelihood of
various negative
affects during
the
pre-menstrual
period. In this
affective
category are
many emotional
designations
including
irritability,
depression,
tension,
anxiety,
sadness,
insecurity,
lethargy,
loneliness,
tearfulness,
fatigue,
restlessness and
changes of mood.
In the majority
of studies,
investigators
have found it
difficult to
distinguish
between various
negative
affects, and
only a few have
allowed
themselves to be
excessively
concerned with
the differences
which might or
might not exist
between
affective
symptoms."
In the same
article dealing
with
Pre-menstrual
Behavioral
Changes we read:
"A significant
relationship
between the
pre-menstrual
phase of the
cycle and a
variety of
specific and
defined forms of
behavior has
been reported in
a number of
studies. For the
purpose of their
review, these
forms of
behavior have
been grouped
under the
headings of
aggressive
behavior,
illness behavior
and accidents,
performance on
examination and
other tests and
sporting
performance."
The lengthy
review portrays
how female
behavior is
affected in
these
situations.
In 'The
Pre-menstrual
Syndrome', C.
Shreeves writes:
"Reduced powers
of concentration
and memory are
familiar aspects
of the
pre-menstrual
syndrome and can
only be remedied
by treating the
underlying
complaint." This
does not mean,
of course, that
women are
mentally
deficient
absolutely. It
just means that
their mental
faculties can
become affected
at certain times
in the
biological
cycle.
Shreeves also
writes: "As many
as 80 percent of
women are aware
of some degree
of pre-menstrual
changes, 40
percent are
substantially
disturbed by
them, and
between 10 and
20 percent are
seriously
disabled as a
result of the
syndrome."
Furthermore,
women face the
problem of
antenatal and
post-natal
depression, both
of which cause
extreme cycles
of depression in
some cases.
Again, these
recurring
symptoms
naturally affect
the mind, giving
rise to
drowsiness and
dopey memory.
On the subject
of pregnancy in
Psychiatry in
Practice,
October-November
1986, we learn
that: "In an
experiment 'Cox'
found that 16
percent of a
sample of 263
pregnant women
were suffering
from clinically
significant
psychiatric
problems. Eight
percent had a
depressive
neurosis and 1.9
percent had
phobic neurosis.
This study
showed that the
proportion of
pregnant women
with psychiatric
problems was
greater than
that found in
the control
group but the
difference only
tended towards
significance."
Regarding the
symptoms during
the post-natal
cycle Dr. Ruth
Sagovsky writes:
"The third
category of
puerperal
psychiatric
problems is
post-natal
depression. It
is generally
agreed that
between 10 to 15
percent of women
become
clinically
depressed after
childbirth.
These mothers
experience a
variety of
symptoms but
anxiety,
especially over
the baby,
irritability,
and excessive
fatigue are
common. Appetite
is usually
decreased and
often there are
considerable
sleep
difficulties.
The mothers lose
interest in the
things they
enjoyed prior to
the baby's
birth, and find
that their
concentration is
impaired. They
often feel
irrational
guilt, and blame
themselves for
being 'bad'
wives and
mothers. Fifty
percent of these
women are not
identified as
having a
depressive
illness.
Unfortunately,
many of them do
not understand
what ails them
and blame their
husbands, their
babies or
themselves until
the
relationships
are strained to
an alarming
degree."
"... Making the
diagnosis of
post-natal
depression is
not always easy.
Quite often the
depression is
beginning to
become a serious
problem around
three months
postpartum when
frequent contact
with the health
visitor is
diminishing. The
mother may not
present with
depressed mood.
If she comes to
the health
center
presenting the
baby as the
patient, the
true nature of
the problem can
be missed. When
the mother is
continually
anxious about
the baby in
spite of
reassurance,
then the primary
health care
worker needs to
be aware of the
possibility of
depression.
Sometimes these
mothers present
with marital
difficulties,
and it is easy
to muddle cause
and effect,
viewing the
accompanying low
mood as part of
the marital
problem.
Sometimes, only
when the husband
is seen as well
does it become
obvious that it
is a post-natal
depressive
illness which
has led to the
deterioration in
the marriage."
Again there is a
need to study
the effects of
the menopause
about which very
little is known
even to this
day. This phase
in a woman's
life can start
at any time from
the mid-thirties
to the
mid-fifties and
can last for as
long as 15
years.
Writing about
the
pre-menopausal
years, C.B.
Ballinger
states: "Several
of the community
surveys indicate
a small but
significant
increase in
psychiatric
symptoms in
women during the
five years prior
to the cessation
of menstrual
periods... The
most obvious
clinical feature
of this
transitional
phase of
menstrual
function is the
alteration in
menstrual
pattern, the
menstrual cycle
becoming shorter
with age, and
variability in
cycle length
become very
prominent just
prior to the
cessation of
menstruation.
Menorrhagia is a
common complaint
at this time,
and is
associated with
higher than
normal levels of
psychiatric
disturbance."
On the
phenomenon of
menopause in an
article in
Newsweek
International,
May 25th 1992,
Dr. Jennifer
al-Knopf,
Director of the
Sex and Marital
Therapy Program
of Northwestern
University
writes:
"...Women never
know what their
body is doing to
them..,. some
reporting
debilitating
symptoms from
hot flashes to
night sweat,
sleeplessness,
irritability,
mood swings,
short term
memory loss,
migraine,
headaches,
urinary
inconsistency
and weight gain.
Most such
problems can be
traced to the
drop-off in the
female hormone
estrogen and
progesterone,
both of which
govern the
ovarian cycle.
But every woman
starts with a
different level
of hormones and
loses them at
different rates.
The
unpredictability
is one of the
most upsetting
aspects. Women
never know what
their body is
going to do to
them..."
Then there are
the psychiatric
aspects of
infertility and
miscarriage. On
the subject of
infertility, Dr.
Ruth Sagovsky
writes:
"Depression,
anger and guilt
are common
reactions to
bereavement. In
infertility
there is the
added pain of
their being
nobody to grieve
for. Families
and friends may
contribute to
the feeling of
isolation by
passing
insensitive
comments. The
gynecologist and
GPs have to try
to help these
couples against
a backdrop of
considerable
distress.”
On the subject
of miscarriage
the above
article
continues:
"Miscarriage is
rarely mentioned
when considering
abortion.
However,
miscarriage can
at times have
profound
psychological
sequel and it is
important that
those women
affected receive
the support they
need.
Approximately
one-fifth of all
pregnancies end
in spontaneous
abortion and the
effects are
poorly
recognized. If
however, the
miscarriage
occurs in the
context of
infertility, the
emotional
reaction may be
severe. The
level of grief
will depend on
the meaning of
pregnancy to the
couple."
Also, the fact
those women are
known to be more
sensitive and
emotional than
men must not be
overlooked. It
is well known,
for example,
that under
identical
circumstance
women suffers
much greater
anxiety than
men. Numerous
medical
references on
this aspect of
female behavior
can be given but
to quote as a
specimen, we
read in 'Sex
Differences in
Mental Health'
that: "Surveys
have found
different
correlates of
anxiety and
neuroticism in
the two sexes.
The same things
do not equally
upset women and
men, and being
upset does not
have the same
effect in men as
in women.
Ekehammer (1974;
Ekehammer,
Magnusson and
Ricklander,
1974) using data
from 116
sixteen-year-olds,
did a factor
analysis on
self-reported
anxiety. Of the
eighteen
different
responses
indicating
anxiety
(sweating palms,
faster heart
rate, and so on)
females reported
experiencing
twelve of them
significantly
more often than
males. Of the
anxiety-producing
situations
studied, females
reported
experiencing
significantly
more anxiety
than males
reported in
fourteen of
them."
It is in light
of the above
findings of
psychologist,
psychiatrists
and researchers
that the saying
of Allah, the
Exalted: “And
get two
witnesses of
your own men,
and if there are
not two men then
a man and two
women such as
you choose for
witnesses - So
that if one of
them errs, the
other can remind
her...” [Baqarah
2:182] can be
understood.
One must also
bear in mind
that
forgetfulness
can be an asset.
A woman has to
be put up with
children
presenting all
kinds of
emotional
problems and a
woman is
certainly known
to be more
resilient than
man is.
The aim of
presenting these
research
findings on a
number of
aspects related
with the theme
is to indicate
that a woman by
her biological
constitution
faces such
problems. It
does not however
make her
inferior to man
but it does
illustrate that
she is
different.
Viewed in this
way, it can only
lead one to the
conclusion that
Allah knows His
creation the
best and has
prescribed
precise laws in
keeping with the
nature of
humankind.
Allah, the
Creator is - as
always -
All-Knowing and
man (or the
disbeliever in
Allah and the
final,
perfected,
revealed way of
life, Islam) is
- as usual -
either ignorant
or arrogant.
As has been
mentioned above
the Prophet
Muhammad (May
the Peace and
Blessing of
Allah be upon
him) was neither
a psychologist
nor a
psychiatrist.
Rather, he
merely conveyed
the truth that
was revealed to
him. It is in
the context of
this quotation
and the one
before it that
the following
saying of the
Prophet Muhammad
(May the Peace
and Blessing of
Allah be upon
him) can be
understood:
"Treat your
women kindly.
The woman has
been created
from a rib, and
the most curved
part of a rib is
its upper
region. If you
try to
straighten it
you will break
it, and if you
leave it as it
is, it will
remain curved.
So treat women
kindly." And in
another
narration: "If
you try to
straighten her
you will break
her and breaking
her means
divorce."
[Reported by
Bukhari and
Muslim]
This is very
important advice
for the man -
for him to have
patience and not
to try to
'reform' the
behavioral
pattern of the
woman during
these times i.e.
'to straighten
her'. He will
not be able to
do that, as it
is biological in
origin. Instead,
he should
maintain and
protect his
relationship
with her by
showing
kindness.
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