For years I was
enslaved by
beauty and
sexuality. My
life centred
around lipsticks
and high heels,
till one day I
gave it all up
and chose to
wear a scarf
over my head and
an abaya to
cover my
body...my life
changed
forever," says
Tahira Anwar, a
32-year-old
Muslim
Canadian.Many
women in North
America are
following
Tahira's example
and turning to
the hijab -- the
conservative
garb widely
considered in
the West a
primitive symbol
of enslavement.
The word hijab
comes from the
Arabic hajaba
and means 'to
hide from view'
or 'to conceal'.
In the modern
context, the
hijab deals with
a modest dress
code for women
prescribed by
Sharia (Islamic
Law).Islam
requires from
women to cover
every part of
their body
except their
face and
hands.In a
western society
where fashion is
a way of life,
such a dress
code is sure to
become a social
stumbling block.
But that has not
prevented many
Muslim women in
Canada from
chucking their
micro-minis for
long gowns.
These are the
women who wear
the hijab with
conviction."Islam
means submission
to the will of
Allah (SWT) and
Allah (SWT) in
his revelation
to Prophet
Muhammad (SAWS)
made it
mandatory for
both men and
women to dress
modestly.
The Prophet
(SAWS) himself
wore loose
clothes and
recommended that
women cover
themselves in
public.
"Personally, the
hijab gave me an
identity of my
own and people
began to see the
real me. They
saw beyond my
physical
attributes and
that is the
greatest freedom
any woman could
wish for," says
Tahira. The
hijab, for many
westerners, has
come to
symbolize either
forced silence
or radical
militancy. "But,
this is not so.
These are all
misconceptions.
Hijab is simply
a woman's
assertion that
her physical
persona plays no
role,
whatsoever, in
her social
interaction,"
says Jawad Jafry,
a Canadian
film-maker who
has made a
documentary on
this
subject."The
issue of the
hijab is an
interesting one.
While most
non-Muslims
question the
need for women
to be covered,
they are unaware
that modesty and
integrity have
been imposed
upon both men
and women in
Islam," he
adds.Jawad did a
lot of research
for his film. "I
found many
career women
wearing the
hijab with
considerable
ease. To them
the hijab was a
way of life and
a decorum for
modesty. They
wore the hijab
with a lot of
conviction and
belief," adds
Jawad.
The film was
balanced in a
way that it
featured both
women who wore
the hijab and
those who
didn't.Some
women
interviewed in
the film
recalled the
difficulties
they encountered
at home and
workplace for
their decision
to wear the
hijab. "
Some women
recalled being
singled out and
others felt
there was a
stressful period
of adjustment
involved. But
all women were
unanimous that
the hijab gave
them a sense of
peace. Most
Islamic scholars
feel Islam
respects the
freedom of
choice, though
the choice may
not always be
the right one. "Hijab
is an order by
Allah(SWT) and
is prescribed in
the Holy Qur'an.
It is not a
decree by the
president or
leader of a
tribe or nation.
Women who don't
wear the hijab
are not
following the
religion of
Islam in
totality," says
Seis Elsheikh of
the Islamic
Information &
Da'wah Center
International in
Toronto.He
points out that
while the hijab
lessens crime
and abuse
against women,
it also stops
the meaningless
display of
women."Women are
used and misused
as objects in
today's
consumerist
world.
You have a woman
selling soaps,
detergents...
even things men
use. She is
often seen as an
object of sexual
desire. The
hijab protects
her sexual
rights and is
the best
safeguard she
can have against
all
misdemeanors,"
Elsheikh
adds.And, for
the hijab
wearers, the
path hasn't
always been an
easy one.
Rukhsana Khan,
award-winning
Canadian author
of children's
books, faced a
lot of
discrimination
when she took to
the hijab. "Many
children in high
school made fun
of me. Until a
few years ago,
students were
suspended for
defying the
dress code.
Today, it's a
lot easier to
wear the hijab
and yet get
accepted in a
Western
society,'' says
Rukhsana.Imam
Abdullah Hakim
Quick, president
of the Islamic
Social Service
and Resource
Association in
Toronto and a
columnist with
Canada's
National daily
The Toronto
Star, says: "The
hijab is
prescribed as a
shariat (law) as
well as a sunnat
(what the
Prophet
prescribed) and
is not any man's
opinion.He adds
that the hijab
is a liberating
force.
It liberates you
from the
shackles of
self-glorification
and
self-beautification
and takes you
out into a world
where people are
respected for
who they are and
what they make
of
themselves."The
hijab makes a
woman feel safe.
Safe from crime,
molestation,
abuse and rape.
Is there a
better tool for
women
empowerment?" he
asks.--ICP
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