Annulment
Under Islamic Law, there is a concept called khiyar al-buloogh, which means “the option
of puberty”. It means that while an immature daughter’s marriage can be arranged by an
elder, she has the right to annul the marriage at the age of puberty if she is not compatible
with her husband. Ustadh Ayman bin Khaled stated:
[According to] Tuhfat Al-Muhtaj and Al–Umm…the father has the right to have
his daughter—who is pre-pubertal—married without her permission. However, in
case this man is incompatible [with her], then she has the right to annul this
marriage. [The] Hanafi madhab, for example, says she has the choice [to annul
the marriage] when she reaches puberty [khiyar al-buloogh].
(Ustadh Ayman bin Khaled, Admin of Multaqa Ahl al-Hadeeth)
Separation
Annulment via khiyar al-buloogh is limited to the age of puberty. However, khula is
always an option available to a female of any age, and this is a right given to women in
the Quran itself. The scholars differ on whether or not khula is a separation [i.e.
revocation of a marriage as if it never happened] or a divorce. Maulana Muhammad
Yousaf Taibi wrote:
The scholars have also differed on the matter whether Khula is a divorce or
cancellation of Nikah (marriage). But the fact is, whatever name you give it, its
commands will remain the same.
(Maulana Mohd. Taibi, http://www.themuslimwoman.com/marriage/khula.htm)
In other words, the end result is the same: the man and wife will no longer be husband
and wife. This author takes the view that Khula is separation [i.e. cancellation] and not
divorce. Shaykh Nayif al-Hamad, presiding judge of Rimah District Court (in Saudi
Arabia), declared:
The Khul’ separation is a revocation of marriage & not a divorce
…It is deemed to be a revocation of the marriage and not a divorce…
Ibn `Abbâs said: “Khul` is a separation and not a divorce” [Related by Ahmad.
Ibn Hajr said: "Its line of transmission is authentic." al-Talkhîs al-Habîr (3/231)].
Someone asked Ibn `Abbâs about a man who divorced his wife twice, then she
made khul` with him; can he marry her again? Ibn `Abbâs replied: “Yes, Allah
mentions divorce at the beginning and at the end of the verse and mentions khul`
in between.” [Related by `Abd al-Razzâq (11771)].
Ibn al-Qayyim said: "This is the school of thought of Ibn `Abbâs, `Uthmân, Ibn
`Umar, al-Rubayyi` and her uncle. In fact, it was never related by any Companion
that khul` is a divorce." [Zâd al-Ma`âd (5/197)].
Ibn Khuzaymah said: “It was never established that khul` is a divorce [al-Talkhîs
al-Habîr (3/231)].
This is the opinion of Ibn Taymiyah. He gives strong support for this opinion in
Majmû` al-Fatâwa (32/289).
(Shaykh Nayif al-Hamad,
http://islamtoday.com/show_detail_se...&main_cat_id=8)
In any case, regardless of whether or not khula is a divorce, the fact is that a woman has
the right to remove herself from any marriage. Admittedly, it is not permissible for a
woman to seek a revocation of her marriage if nothing is wrong with the marriage.
(What kind of a person would divorce her husband if nothing was wrong?) However, if
something is wrong with her marriage (i.e. if the marriage causes her some hardship or
harm), then she has the right to seek khula, according to Islamic Law (Shari’ah).
Shaykh Abdur Rahman al-Ajlan, a lecturer at the Grand Mosque in Mecca, declared:
A woman should not ask for a divorce without a legal or valid reason as long as
she can manage to live with her husband. Our Prophet (peace be upon him) said:
“Any woman who requests her husband to divorce her without a valid reason will
not smell the scent of Paradise.”
However, if a proper marital life has become impossible between the two or if it
has become simply unbearable for her, then it is permissible for her to ask
for divorce. Allah says: “But if they separate, Allah will provide abundance for
each of them from His all-reaching bounty.”
(Shaykh Abdur Rahman al-Ajlan,
http://islamtoday.com/show_detail_se...&main_cat_id=8)
The proof that it is allowed for a Muslim woman to seek khula comes from an authentic
Prophetic narration, as follows:
The wife of Thabit ibn Qays came to the Prophet and said: “O Messenger of
Allah, I do not find any fault with Thabit ibn Qays in his character or religious
commitment, but I do not want to commit any act of kufr after becoming a
Muslim.” The Prophet said to her: “Will you give back his garden?” Because he
had given her a garden as her dower. She said: “Yes.” The Prophet said to
Thabit: “Take back your garden, and divorce her.”
(Narrated by al-Bukhari, 5273)
Shaykh Salih al-Munajjid commented on this hadeeth:
From this case the scholars understood that if a woman cannot stay with her
husband, then the judge should ask him to divorce her by khula’; indeed he
should order him to do so.
(Shaykh Salih al-Munajjid, Islam-qa.com, http://islamqa.com/en/ref/26247)
According to the Hanbalis, Shafi’is, and Malikis, a judicial decree can separate a man and
woman, even against the wishes of the husband. We read:
According to all schools except the Hanafis a wife may obtain a judicial decree of
divorce on the grounds of some matrimonial offense—e.g., cruelty, desertion,
failure to maintain—committed by the husband.
(Encyclopedia Britannica, http://www.britannica.com/eb/article-
68932/Shariah#196917.hook)
The judge and the court are to be the protectors of the rights of women. They are
entrusted with the right to dissolve any marriage, and are commanded to do so when there
is any harm being done to the wife, even if the husband refuses to grant khula to his wife.
Abu az-Zubayr of IslamicAwakening.com, a senior student of knowledge, explained:
She [the wife] has the Shara’i right to demand a khul’ and [if] the husband
refuses, she goes to the judge…the judge looks at the situation and forces
separation, even if the husband does not like it.
(Abu az-Zubayr, IslamicAwakening.com)
Maulana Muhammad Yousaf Taibi wrote:
It is not essential to seek khula through court; the two parties can separate through
mutual agreement. But if the husband does not agree, then the wife can
contact the court.
(Maulana Mohd. Taibi, http://www.themuslimwoman.com/marriage/khula.htm)
Shaykh Ibrahim al-Khudayri issued the following fatwa (religious edict):
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Question:
Is (the) muslim qazi (judge) permitted to invoke the proceedings of khula
(divorce) on the unilateral initiation of (a) woman living away from her husband
in the absence of her husband?
Answer:
Praise be to Allaah.
Yes, that is permissible, because the qaadi (judge) has the authority to separate
husband and wife and thus end the marriage if it is impossible for them to
maintain a stable marriage and if the wife is being harmed by her husband’s
neglect, whether it be sexual, economic or social. The qaadi should study each
case on its own merits and look into the circumstances surrounding each case. The
husband’s absence has no effect on the validity of the annulment.
(Shaykh Ibrahim al-Khudayri, Islam-qa.com, http://islamqa.com/en/ref/12179)
A wife can seek khula for a variety of reasons; one of these reasons could be that she
simply does not like him. (From this, we can see that the Islamaphobes have painted a
very inaccurate portrait of Islam; unlike Christianity, Islam does not force a wife to stay
in a marriage that she dislikes.) Shaykh Salih al-Munajjid said:
…It is permissible to seek a divorce, [for reasons] such as disliking her husband,
not being able to stay with him or disliking him because of his immoral ways and
indulgence in haraam actions, etc., [and] there is nothing wrong with her seeking
divorce.
(Shaykh Salih al-Munajjid, Islam-qa.com, http://islamqa.com/en/ref/26247)
Shaykh Ibn Jibreen listed some of the reasons that a wife may seek khula:
If a woman dislikes her husband’s treatment of her – for example, he is overstrict,
hot-tempered or easily-provoked, or gets angry a lot, or criticizes her and
rebukes her for the slightest mistake or shortcoming, then she has the right of
khula’ [female-instigated divorce].
If she dislikes his physical appearance because of some deformity or ugliness, or
because one of his faculties is missing, she has the right of khula’.
If he is lacking in religious commitment – for example, he doesn’t pray, or
neglects to pray in jamaa’ah, or does not fast in Ramadaan without a proper
excuse, or he goes to parties where haraam things are done, such as fornication,
drinking alcohol and listening to singing and musical instruments, etc. – she has
the right of khula’.
If he deprives of her of her rights of spending on her maintenance, clothing and
other essential needs, when he is able to provide these things, then she has the
right to ask for khula’.
If he does not give her her conjugal rights and thus keep her chaste because he is
impotent (i.e. unable to have intercourse), or because he does not like her, or he
prefers someone else, or he is unfair in the division of his time [i.e., among cowives],
then she has the right to ask for khula’.
And Allaah knows best.
(Shaykh Ibn Jibreen, http://islamqa.com/en/ref/1859)
Although it is true that a woman cannot seek khula without any reason, she can do so if
she has a reason for that. Shaykh Salih al-Munajjid declared:
The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Any woman who
asks her husband for a divorce when there is nothing wrong, the fragrance of
Paradise will be forbidden to her.” Narrated by al-Tirmidhi and classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh
al-Tirmidhi.
What is meant by something wrong is hardship which compels her to seek a
separation.
Asking for divorce when there is no problem that would compel a woman to do
that is haraam, and some scholars regarded it as a major sin, such as Ibn Hajar al-
Haytami in al-Zawaajir.
From the hadeeth quoted above it may be understood that it is permissible
for a woman to ask for a divorce if there is some hardship or harm that will
necessary food, clothing or accommodation, or if he is impotent, unjust to his
wives in a polygamous situation, or does not fulfill his obligations according to
their marriage contract, then she can redeem herself [i.e. seek khula] by refunding
the dowry already paid by her husband upon marriage so that she can be freed
[from the marriage].
The lawfulness of such an act is mentioned in the Qur’an and Sunnah. Allah says:
“If you indeed fear that they will not be unable to keep the limits ordained by
Allah, there is no blame on either of them if she gives something for her
freedom.”
Ibn `Abbâs said: “The wife of Thâbit b.Qays came to the Prophet (peace be upon
him) and said: 'O Messenger of Allah, I do not dishonor his morals or his religion
but I do not like any act of disbelief in Islam.' The Prophet (peace be upon him)
said: 'Would you return to him his garden?' She said: 'Yes.' The Prophet (peace be
upon him) then told Thâbit: 'Take over your garden” [Sahîh al-Bukhârî]
This woman requested to be separated from her husband to avoid any failure in
her duties towards him because she hated him.
…The husband should…willingly divorce her, and he will be rewarded for that,
but if he refuses, she can redeem herself.
At that time she has to give back his money then she can have the khul` by
decree of an Islamic judge or relevant Islamic authority in your area.
(Shaykh Abdullah Nasir al-Sulami,
http://islamtoday.com/show_detail_se...&main_cat_id=8)
The conclusion of our discussion is that a father may marry his daughter off before she
becomes mature, but the marriage contract is not executed until after she becomes
mature. Meanwhile, she has the right to annul the marriage using khiyar al-buloogh, or if
that does not apply, then she can seek khula at any time she wants. Therefore, for all
practical purposes, the “marriage” arranged by the Muslim father is similar to the
Western concept of betrothal; a father betroths his daughter to a man, but she will
eventually be able to accept or reject this marriage, using the options of annulment and
khula, as applicable. Once her marriage is terminated, the woman is free to marry any
man of her choosing; Muslim wives are allowed to remarry as many times as they wish.
be caused if the marriage continues.
(Shaykh Salih al-Munajjid, Islam-qa.com, http://islamqa.com/en/ref/99870)
The Islamaphobes claim that Islamic Law (Shari’ah) allows a girl to be placed in a
marriage that would cause her hardship or harm. Yet, the truth is that the Islamic Law
gives every woman the right to have her marriage dissolved if the marriage is causing her
hardship or harm! This applies to a female of any age. Such is the beauty of the Islamic
religion. Therefore, if her father marries her to someone, and she cannot reasonably
tolerate that marriage, then she can simply seek a khula. Ustadh Ayman bin Khaled
wrote:
If the woman is in a situation—that she cannot stand whom she got married to—
she can always ask for divorce through khulu', and if the husband refuses and
there is harm on her [from the marriage], the judge can [and should] divorce her.
(Ustadh Ayman bin Khaled, Admin of Multaqa Ahl al-Hadeeth)
Shaykh Abdullah Nasir al-Sulami, professor at the Higher Juridical Institute in Saudi
Arabia, declared:
If a woman hates her husband and cannot live with him any more due to his bad
manners or due to his lack of performance of his religious duties, or if she feels
that she can not fulfill her duties towards him, or if he treats her improperly,
causing continuous baseless disputes for her, or fails to provide her with